Fighting With What Is
People have a tendency to be in opposition to “what is”. Often times we lean towards “what we think should be” instead of simply accepting “what is”, which is the reality of the moment.rnrnWe mistake our susceptibility to hold on to an elusive alternate reality as our suffering. We want so much for our lives to be different from our present lot that we use it as if it is a dramatic plot point in our life story. This is actually just ridiculous. It is as ****** as saying, “Pigs should fly.”rnrnDifferent RealityrnrnYou might say that you certainly don’t think such thoughts. On the contrary, you probably think a lot of these thoughts on a daily basis – “I should have been a