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Christian Dating Websites Can Be Best For You

10.31.2009 · Posted in Dating Articles

Christian single men and Christian single women should exercise extra caution when dating online. Traditional dating provides a first face to face meeting which you don’t have in online dating. But it’s easy for someone to make themselves into something they are not online. We want to see you successful in your online dating experience. Here are some things to strongly consider.rnrnBe awarernrnJust because an online dating site claims to be a Christian dating site, not all the members are spiritually mature. When looking online for Christian single men or women, make sure you take a good look at their character and watch their actions when they are online. Is their spiritual side real, or are they putting on a good front? During your online chats, do they show signs of spiritual maturity?rnrnGiving out your personal contact information too early can lead to trouble later. Be careful when giving out information, such as which church you are attending or any other personal information before you have evaluated whether or not the other person is trustworthy. The Bible tells us about wolves in sheep’s clothing, so make smart choices when dating online.rnrnDon’t Be In A Hurry rnrnWhen you first see your potential date for the first time, don’t be in a hurry. *** teaches us patience and we should do our level best to exemplify this Christian virtue. Make sure you take time to learn about each other before a formal meeting. And, when you’re meeting someone for the first time, it will be best to have someone with you to watch over you. The best places to meet are somewhere you find people around, such as a coffee shop, a donut shop, or your favorite ice cream shop.. Meet in the early evening or during the daytime if possible for security reasons.rnrnFirst Things FirstrnrnAnother piece advice for the single Christian women and men is to keep their thoughts pure. Keep yourself focused on reality, and not on expectations that can either only lead to trouble or disappointment. Pray and focus on the occasion, rather than creating mind pictures of something that may not happen. This can and many times will lead to disappointment and discouraement.rnrnHonesty Is The Best PolicyrnrnWhen preparing your dating profile, you might be tempted to deceive others just so you can make yourself more attractive. Christ made us in his image, so you are a unique individual. This means that you are beautiful in ***’s eyes. Hopefully this will give you the stamina and confidence to be honest in your online dating profile. Don’t opt for a flattering picture from ten years ago because this is going to deceive your future dates about your looks. Self confidence comes from ***, so exhibit it by being honest in your dealings and your confidence will grow. Having low self-esteem is doing a disservice to *** because He loves you and treats you as the apple of His eye. You should take his word for it.rnrnDating singles online is not much different from the Christian courting being done in Christian groups. Keep being vigilant in meeting other Christians and make sure that you you know what dating online provides.

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