The Best Policy For Online Dating Is Honesty

By: Robert Thomson

Why do people do online dating? Because they want to find someone they can become friends and maybe even love. No one is looking for Superman or Wonder-Woman. So when you create your online dating profile, be honest. Try to show the real you and be completely true to yourself. You are looking for someone you want to be with, how can you find someone if you lie about yourself?
The best way to begin writing your profile is to carefully analyze your past relationship (s). What was right? What was wrong? What things really made you like the last girl? Which didn't? Don't assume that just because you hated that your last girl was so totally self-involved that she couldn't see anything else, you'll be able to overlook that quality this time. You won't. Then think about yourself. How are you really? What do like? What do you hate? What interests you?
If you aren't 6'1" with a six-pack to be proud of, don't pretend to. If you are a taxi-driver, don't claim to be a stockbroker with a 6 figure income and a beach-house.. If you are 40 or 50, don't pretend to be 30 something. If you hate cats, don't pretend to be a cat-lover just because a beautiful girl you want to date is.
Remember, the idea here is to find a girl who will like you exactly like you really are. If you have lied in your profile with your picture, the first face-to-face meeting will remove all her doubt that you are a liar...and probably a cheat, as well. If you lied about your preferences and abilities your relationship will become a horror story until admit that you are a liar. That's the stuff Hollywood Comedy-Movies are made of but in reality that's all but funny.
Last but not least, if you managed to find the man or woman of your dreams and have an ongoing relationship chancel your account on the dating service immediately. It sends a very bad signal if she finds out. And honestly, do you actually need this account anymore?

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