How to get over betrayal and the power of forgiveness.

By: Origin Psychics


Forgiving someone that has wronged you can be extremely difficult. However there are rewards for those who learn to forgive

Many of us have been or may well be hurt at some point in our lives. In todays world nobody is perfect and it is very rare for someone to go through life not having felt the deep pain of being wronged. From something as hurtful as a marriage breakdown, to not getting an invite to the party of the year, these feelings are now part of our everyday lives.

Dealing with hurt

Whether it's the first time or just another part of a long list of hurt, the same questions are always asked. What will this mean for my future? and how do I get over this? Forgiving is a very powerful and important step and perhaps to understand this we must imagine what it is not to forgive.

What is it to be unforgiving?

The main reason we choose not to forgive somone is that it is somehow construed as a let off. There are many hideous crimes going on in the world and how could we possibly forgive them? However we do not really understand what we are doing when we forgive. Thoughts and feelings are left behind and the choices we make can directly affect which of these feelings we keep in our minds.

The repercussions of never being able to forgive.

By not letting go of the past you could be holding on to a whole host of detrimental feelings such as anger, resentment and betrayal. These will not change what has already happened and by not letting go of them or forgiving, these can actually lead to an even unhappier life ahead.

A real event.

One of my clients told me once about what she did when she discovered that her husband was leaving her for a younger woman. They had been married 30 years and although it brought her much sadness rather than try to punish her husband for what he was doing, she told him honestly that she wanted him to be happy. An incredibly hard thing to do and it was certainly not for her husbands benefit. It was for her own as she'd rather not spend years of misery dwelling on what had happened. She decided she did not want to be left with a bitter heart because of what he had done and so through her love for her spiritual self she realised the best way forward was to forgive.

Knowing what we do to others.

Being forgiving is also about us realising the fact that we too have hurt people. It may be you that is hurt right now but looking back to the past you will discover that you may have disappointed or let someone down too. In forgiving other people you are allowing yourself to forgive yourself! This can be said as more often than not you will judge others as you will judge yourself.

The advantages of a big heart.

Although being forgiving may seem hard, you can be assured being unforgiving takes a lot more time, effort, energy and inevitably leaves us with nothing. So when you are faced with deep and painful hurt, look deep in your heart and make a choice to forgive, to let go, to embrace and welcome the liberating power of forgiveness in your heart, mind and soul.

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